Purpose of life is a life of Purpose.

Daily, take the time to write a list of gratitude that you are grateful for.Β πŸ™‡β€β™‚οΈπŸ™‡β€β™€οΈ
It could be anything small from:
1. wake up in the morningΒ 
2. Having a Bed, a pillow, pillowcase any of the lists.Β πŸ›Œ

Or it could be anything of great value such as 1. WorkΒ πŸ‘¨β€πŸ«
2. Your healthΒ πŸ‘¨β€βš•οΈ
3. your partnerΒ πŸ€΄πŸ‘Έ
4. your kids or anything of great value to you.Β πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦

Having a spiritual morning regime is crucial. So inspire to be an aspiration.Β πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

Your first 30min of your day determines the rest of your day.Β β°β°βŒ›
Enter when you wake up everyday, the things that you are grateful for you begin to add purpose back to your life.

Study shows that the moment your brain reportedly begin to focus on things you are grateful for you build:
A purpose for your life which gives you a sense of motivation, drive, determination, desire and long-lived passion.

YOUR TURN:πŸ“”πŸ“•πŸ“–πŸ“ƒπŸ“„
1. Get a notebook, a diary, a journal or a notepad.
2. Begin to write a listof things you are grateful for.βœβœ’πŸ–πŸ“
3. Once complete, give yourself 10min of silence to appreciate thr thing you wrote down.🀩🀩🀩
4. Repeat daily for 6 weeksπŸ“†
Much love peace

The battle within…

I’ll share with you a story about an athlete with a cerebral palsy who competed in the 400meter race

When the race began, with every strol he took, he was painfully dragging his feet across the concret. The pain was unbearable but he kept on running

The remaining athletes finished the race and the were now beginning to watch the last man with awe and amazement

The athlete continue to drag his feet and continue to push through, seeing the end goal in sight but the pain kept on reminding him of his baggage. He had one thing in mind, FINISH.

now everyone that finsihed the race waited to watch them finish. The unexpected happen however, everyone began cheering him on as if he was the gold medalist.

The athlete kept on pushing and pushing dragging and dragging until he waa fibally 3/4 the way till the end, then the worst happened. He started to bleed and he Fell.

But to his surprise thats when people cheered even louder and LOUDER.

So that pain became distant and he knew what he had to do. FINISH.

Now all the other athletes followed him, stood by him and some were ahead of him clapping, encouraging him to push on and focus on his GOAL. FINISH.

Sure enough after a gruelling excruciating pain. He managed to finish. Finally, blood gnashing put and be has only one thing on his mind, FINISH. AND FINISH HE DID!!!

NOTHING else mattered, he knew he made and everythung now was worth, even the blood, the pain, the challenges and the negative thoughts that managed to creep in.

The moral of the story was if you continue to compete with other people (other athletes) you always going to lose.

Everyone’s going to be ahead of you

But the moment you start to compete with yourself everyone starts to help you.

So your core values should not for you to compete with other business or people or other relationships,

But instead is to continue to fight with yourself to better yourself and only then that everybody will come United come together and start believing in what you believe.

When you start to compare yourself with others YOU become haunted by the idea that you always need to be on top and continue to fight with no end.

However,

if you just focus on bettering yourself and only with yourself then everybody will come United come together and help you with the cause.

Why….?

Because start to believe in what you believe and follow your lead.

Its my turn now….

“A father hold his daughter’s hand for a short while, but he holds her heart forever.” – Unknown

Undenied and unconditional love thrive to ensure ones loves are protected and secured from the danger of the world.

But there will come a time when our time together will lessen so you can challenge the world and explore its mystery.

The connection will never be dyre and never fade but our cord will become longer as you move further away

From now till then we will never be apart for you’re always in my heart

Our interaction and role modelling to the future generation will never seize; they will continue to learn, continue to adapt and continue to sponge in all that that experience

Every contiguous laugh every addictive smile and every cherished memory we have and share will be our building block to a strong foundation.

Parent will continue to learn from their kids and the learning will never stop.

Facing it interacting with it and appropriately communicating its emotional content will only align our faith and grow our connection.

So for now as we continue to grow and learn let me lead you toward the right path before it comes your turn to do the same for me.

Wait and enjoy every moment, its almost over
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L.O.V.E

Many couples forget to mention the key ingredient in healthy relationship.

Love

Love is profoundly powerful that many countries go to war for it. Take the example of Troy

One man love for a woman and another man conquest to retrieve his love

Who won at the end?

Love did.. only true love conquered and what was lost is also Love.

Understanding how to envision this mission and align yourself with the right train of thoughts, energy, synergy, connection and chemistry

Only to find out one this…. love has no one path for enternity but it is a joruney of continuous growth and learning from one another

This video is part 1 of how to face your LOVE head on and finally be able to tame the beast thay once ruled your preconceptions

Enjoy…..

Faith, Wherefore art thou…

You are the master of your fate and the captain your soul

They say emotions of faith sex and love are the best combination of positive emotions. When the three are blended, they have the best way of colouring the thought process in such a way that it ultimately reaches the subconscious mind where its changed to its spiritual equivalence. Love and faith are psychic which induce the spiritual side of man. Sex is biological and related only to the physical side. The blending of three creates an opening to the direct finite of man and infinite intelligence.

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Faith is a state of mind which is induced by the affirmation or repeated instruction to the subconscious mind through the principle of auto-suggestion

The concept pertains the principle of acquiring that what you wish for to your subconscious enough that you create enough repeated desires which ultimately states your faith. In other words, believing through desires, repeated will and actions and undenied need to achieve your goal will shape your perception your behaviour. This idea fits within our relationship skills is that your blended combination if induced appropriately and concisely will eventually make you reach your desired outcome… connection and happiness.

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Stay true to your faith by repeating simple skills and strategies, and you will reach those goals.

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Now let’s start the first day of the rest of your life and remember

You are the master of your fate and the captain your soul

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Improve your self-discipline

There’s are many ways you can eradicate the bad habit and make light of your good ones.

However we are a product of our surrounding but also our upbringing. How is your relationship with health exercise and time dictate your self-discipline and emotional regulation.

The list goes how you can do that but ill share with you a concept by Dr Jonice Webb PhD in her book Running on Empty.

How to improve your self-discipline, simply follow the three things program:

[ ] Do three things that you dont want to do but have to

Or

[ ] Stop yourself from doing three things that you want to do but shouldn’t.

Do this for exactly 4 weeks watch your old unhealthy habits die while you foster new healthy habits

If you can’t think of what a healthy habit looks like here are some example:

β€’ Face washing

β€’ Exercise

β€’ Bill paying

β€’ Floor sweeping

β€’ Phone calling

β€’ Dishwashing

β€’ Task starting

β€’ Reading

β€’ Meditating

β€’ Healthy eating

β€’ Cooking

Your unhealthy habits could be of thr list below:

β€’ Sitting at home all day

β€’ Takeaways

β€’ Eating unhealthy snacks

β€’ Watching TV

β€’ Drinking all day – overindulging

β€’ Shopping – to erase the feeling of loneliness pool

Etc

P.S. if some of these unhealthy habit are dealt with in moderation then it possibly can be used as a self soothing exercise rather than unhealthy habits. We will talk about it in next post.

Stay true and Bless!!!!

Find your inner child

From the book by Anik Singal Escape who established Lurn #lurn and was mentored by Robert kyosaki he spoke about how its best for us to adopt the personality, chrisma, attitude and tenacity of kids. They don’t know:

β€’ When to give up
β€’ What failure looks like
β€’ How to slow down
β€’ They keep asking questions
β€’ Extremely relentless,

thats what makes a greater learner, leader entrepreneur and successful business person posses.

Somehow throughout our life we forgot those characteristic because we were told to:

β€’ Slow down,
β€’ Not to ask too much questions,
β€’ Quit if it is too hard
β€’ Stop being annoying (opposite to relentless).

So its our time now, to go back to our roots and

ACT like KIDS!!!

Knowing your limit only cripples your success😡😡

 

Nothing is more important than the relationship you have with yourself. No one limits your success besides your own fears.
Fear stands for- False Events Appear Real. SO what are your false event telling you that you can’t do, can’t reach, can’t achieve or can’t overcome?πŸ‘·β€β™‚οΈπŸ’‚β€β™‚οΈπŸ‘©β€βš•οΈπŸ‘¨β€πŸŒΎπŸ‘¨β€πŸ«πŸ‘¨β€πŸŽ€πŸ¦Έβ€β™€οΈπŸ¦Έβ€β™‚οΈ

I tell you one thing and that should be your guiding star, shining light, and salvationΒ πŸŒΊπŸπŸ–

A road never used is a road lostπŸ§—β€β™‚οΈπŸ§—β€β™€οΈπŸ”

Don’t let Fear conquer you, Nobody knows where that road may lead you, the Choice IS YOURS!!!